Rape has received a lot of attention in the media in the last year. The questions about “legitimate” rape, the military reports of rape of all drawn attention. Rape usually doesn’t have witnesses although in the age of Facebook people are publicizing behavior some time that they don’t even perceive as problematic. Trials often require the defense to try to prove that it was a consensual sex act and not a rape. It turns out both men and women are often confused about what has occurred. Because rape victims usually feel great shape and guilt, they often feel they are responsible and not the perpetrator. Interestingly, many child victims of sexual assault feel they are to blame for what occurred. Read my full article on Your Tango Experts.